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How to Snag a Date in 20 Minutes!

29 Saturday Jul 2017

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Okay, so I know what you’re thinking, HOW?! But, when you’re  in desperate need of a plus 1, don’t rule anything out. Before we get into my experience, we want to remind everyone to be smart and remain in public places, tell people where you’re going and who you’re going with – just in case. Be spontaneous but make sure that you always feel safe.

Here is an excerpt from “10 Rules to Survive the Internet Dating Jungle” —

Getting a date is really easier than you think. I was going to a black tie event in Tampa Bay and I wanted a date to accompany me. I had a few guys I know would go, but I wanted to take someone new. So I posted an AD on Craigslist (yes Craigslist) for exactly what I was looking for and got my date in less than 20 minutes.

  1. Be precise in what you are looking for
  2. Within the AD describe in more detail
  3. Post a good photo of you
  4. Weed out responses quickly

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If you’re not getting the responses you want, it might be your photos, your headline or you’re not describing in detail exactly what you want. Be honest with yourself – how are people really seeing you? Are you representing yourself honestly? Do you need to lose some weight? Get your hair done? Be the best you that you can be and you will attract a partner that you are worthy of and vice versa! Tinder is also a valuable resource for quick dates! Just swipe right for love!

Get more Offline dating tips with “10 Rules to Survive the Dating Jungle” today! Now available on Amazon.

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How to Get a Date in 20 minutes or LESS

12 Monday Sep 2016

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craigslist-adGetting a date is really easier than you think. I was going to a black tie event in Tampa Bay and I wanted a date to accompany me. I had a few guys I know would go, but I wanted to take someone new. So I posted an AD on Craigslist (yes Craigslist) for exactly what I was looking for and got my date in less than 20 minutes.

  1. Be precise in what you are looking for
  2. Within the AD describe in more detail
  3. Post a good photo of you
  4. Weed out responses quickly

If you’re not getting the responses you want, it might be your photos, your headline or you’re not describing in detail exactly what you want. Be honest with yourself – how are people really seeing you? Are you representing yourself honestly? Do you need to lose some weight? Get your hair done? Be the best you that you can be and you will attract a partner that you are worthy of and vice versa! Tinder is also a valuable resource for quick dates! Just swipe right for love!

Get more Offline dating tips with “10 Rules to Survive the Dating Jungle” today! Now available on Amazon.

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Help The Dating Jungle Boot Camp become a TV SHOW!

17 Saturday Aug 2013

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I’m Tara Richter I’m a certified dating coach and I help guys get the hot chicks! I’ve assisted single people across the globe via CNN, ABC, Daytime TV and FOX. I have written and published 3 dating books crafted from my own personal experience venturing back out into the Dating Jungle after divorce. The problem is that guys come off as creepy or douchey when approaching women out at a bar or within online dating sites. It’s not that they mean to, it’s just that they don’t understand dating etiquette. What I do is give men the key elements to what women want and whip them into dating shape to get them the dates they deserve.
PURPOSE
I want to turn my coaching sessions into a Reality TV Show on a major network. I’m raising money to help fund my TV project. Teaching dating etiquette and whipping men into dating shape so everyone can see and learn from the comforts of their homes.

My goal and mission is to help the single men out there and clean up the dating scene. Especially online dating has gotten out of hand and nobody knows or understands dating etiquette anymore. Which is the reason why I wrote my 2nd book, “10 Rules to Survive Internet Dating Jungle.” I’m trying to spread the word of what to do and what not to do.

Since I’m a woman I can refine men and make them a great catch. Lots of single women keep wondering “Where are all the good guys at?” I think there are more good guys out there than we know. They just need to be dusted off and present themselves with their best foot forward.

I’m trying to raise enough money to attend the big TV Reality Summit in DC January 2014. I will be utilizing the funds to prepare my show to pitch to the big networks at this event. I appreciate any donations you can submit to help my project become a reality and hopefully on a network near you soon!

PACKAGES
One of the most helpful things you can do for my project is purchasing any of my current books. These are all special second editions autographed by me. I can ship to you right away any or all of my first 3 books:
1) 10 Rules to Survive the Dating Jungle
2) 10 Rules to Survive the Internet Dating Jungle
3) 5 Steps to Heal a Broken Heart

My books do go in sequence. They are rule books, but my personal stories are woven within the rules. If you want to go in order, they are written down above in the order to be read.

Become a sponsor on my internet TV show! Or advertise your business right here on my blog site. The Jungle Blog receives about 4,000 hits a month. It’s a great place to advertise your business! Click here and see all my package deals on my Indiegogo campaign.

For autographed photos, it will be a random selection of photos I choose. They might be professional headshot or a variation of another professional photo. Some displayed on this website and some that are not. They will be an 8×10 print.

**Thank you so much for your support and your donations! I will also list everyone’s name that donates and purchases any of the packages and dedicate my 4th book to all of you!

Help me save the dating world!

Tara Richter

Tara Richter is an Internet Dating Coach in Tampa Bay. She is the author of “The Dating Jungle Series” and an Internet TV Show Host.

How to Get a Date in 20 mins or Less

17 Saturday Aug 2013

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I just accomplished this myself so I’m going to share with you how I did it. I’m going to a black tie event next Friday and I wanted a date to accompany me. I had a few guys I know would go, but I wanted to take someone new. So I posted an AD on Craigslist (yes Craigslist)  for exactly what I was looking for and got my date in less than 20 minutes.

1)      Be precise for what you are looking for. I knew exactly what “type” of guy I wanted to attend the event with me. I want him to look good in a suite or tux, tall, attractive and be able to carry on an intelligent conversation. Since this event is going to be filled with business owners, I needed to know he could rub elbows with that sort of crowd. So I titled my AD, “Seeking Gentlemen to Accompany me to a Black Tie Event.”  By doing this I weeded out the men that wouldn’t wear a tux or be comfortable in that environment.

2)      Within the AD describe in more detail. Then I spelled it out that you have to be intelligent, I wanted someone tall because I am tall and when wearing heels I don’t want to tower over my date. I also put my age to hopefully get men in my dating pool (no more than 10 years older of younger.)

3)      Post a good photo of you. I put a photo of myself from New Year’s Eve dress up. So they would see what I look like in fancy attire. Make sure to take an excellent photo of Richter_Tara_Dating_ Coachyourself and put your best foot forward. Even if you have a few pounds to loose, wear an outfit that compliments your figure. Stand in a way that the camera and angles show you in the best light. You can take off 20 pounds with the right techniques. I teach all my girlfriends this move. The picture here demonstrates it well. You stand, then take your left foot out and point it. Say if your facing N your left foot would be pointing W. You twist your body, your hips are point E & W then twist your shoulders towards N & S. Twisting, sucking in, chin out & voilà! You’ve lost 20 pounds & elongated your body & will look great in photos.

4)      Weed Out Responses Quickly. After posting my AD I received about 50 emails in less than 20 minutes. I had to take it down soon after because my email box was flooded with men. Since I was very precise in what I was looking for I had guys emailing me photos of themselves in suits & tuxedos!  It was fantastic I didn’t even have to leave my house while I did the casting call. I quickly scanned the photos & what they wrote. I had non-negotiables in mind & weeded out the ones that didn’t fit. The 7th email I read was exactly what I wanted: 33 years old, 6 ft tall, curly brown hair, pretty eyes, has written & published a book of his own (awesome I know we are similar in that regard) he designs websites (I have a degree in graphic design) & he’s originally from Wisconsin, perfect I’m from the Midwest too! He also looked good in his suit, winner winner chicken dinner! I found my date in less than 20 minutes! I emailed him & we set up a meeting for coffee the following day.

Bonus was he showed up in a ’77 Mustang Fastback, one of my favorite cars! And looked just like his photos. If you’re not getting the responses you want, it might be your photos, your headline or you’re not describing in detail exactly what you want. You get what you pitch for. Be honest with yourself how are people really seeing you?  Are you representing yourself honestly? Do you need to loose some weight? Get your hair done. Yes, people can criticize and say I get a date in 20 minutes because I’m good looking, well let me tell you I didn’t always look like this.

In high-school I was overweight, nerdy & played the cello. Do you think I got dates then? Absolutely not. I was unhappy with myself so I changed. Over the course of a summer I lost weight figured out how to dress and do my hair & makeup from watching movies & reading magazines. I went from orchestra nerd to being voted most desirable female of the senior class.  It can be done! I did it myself. I can help you too. If you think your in need of a dating make-over contact me today & find out about my Dating Jungle Boot Camp!

Tara Richter

Tara Richter is a Dating Coach in Tampa Bay & the author of “The Dating Jungle Series” and an Internet TV Show Host.