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desiree hartsock2The Bachelorette has spicy turns at every angle in this episode. We finally discover who has the seething girlfriend crash the house. It’s Brain. It seems to me he pulled a move that lots of men do. They keep their foot in one relationship while they go out to see if the grass is greener on the other side. He kept is girlfriend in the dark about what he was really doing so if it didn’t work out with Des then he would have her to go back to. Typical monkey type behavior. Swinging from one branch while you’re still hanging onto the other branch. It’s deceitful and a huge flaw in a person’s character.

After that drama Desiree goes on a date with Kasey where the dance one the side of a building, then get wind blown all over the rooftop. Not the most romantic of dates from the show.

Then the guys play a game of dodge ball. Who loves short shorts on a bunch of dude with sky high tube socks!? Brooks gets his finger broken during the testosterone filled ball fight. Poor Brooks he doesn’t even get a rose at the end of that date and he took a trip to the ER.

Brandon confesses his love for Desiree at the pool party prior to the rose ceremony. He stated he had never felt so confident going into something. That could of been his clue right there. Seems to me whenever you feel 100% sure about love, it just slaps you in the face with something you are not expecting. I actually feel sorry for him. Sounds like he had a rough childhood and got attach too quickly. Which is a characteristic of abandonment issues. Which he obviously has since he stated, when she did not give him a rose at the end of the show, that he was being left once again. He heart was breaking and he didn’t know what to do. What happened is all his childhood issues are resurfacing because of Desiree rejecting him. What he needs to do is read my last ebook I just published, “5 Ways to Heal a Broken Heart” & deal with the real issues that he hasn’t healed from childhood.

Tara Richter
Tara Richter is an Internet Dating Coach in Tampa Bay. She is the author of “The Dating Jungle Series” and an Internet TV Show Host.