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Businesswoman Showing CleavageNo matter what stages you are at in your relationship; new, long-term or married, you need to keep the sizzle alive. Relationships are like a plant, if you don’t water it they will die. A way you can keep it interesting and fun is to start little traditions that are unique & special to just the two of you. Something fun that you have never done with a previous partner. You want to make new memories with your current partner, not relive old memories.

For example you could start a weekly sexy picture text message on hump day. Send it during the day at work on your lunch break, bathroom break, whenever you can get away & sneak a sexy photo of yourself. It’s a great way to keep them thinking about you & they’ll appreciate a break from the mundane, stale business meetings.

You have to be consistent however. Don’t be sporadic if you’re making a “tradition”. Eventually they will look forward to that day because they know you are taking the time to make their day go by a little bit faster. I like to call it ”Motivational Hump Day Pics”.

Have fun with it, take a photo in a sexy, lacy bra. If you’re worried about someone seeing it, crop your face out of the photo. That’s the safest way to keep it anonymous. Now with this being said, don’t send sexy photos to someone you just met. This is only for someone you know well and trust they are not going to show the pics to their friends. Some guys will want you to send sexy photos prior to meeting in person from the internet. That’s NOT the time to do it.  Only after you’ve been dating for awhile.

Spice it up with a variety of different cute, sexy outfits etc. Before you know it you have become and integral part of their life that they look forward to. It’s all about keeping it fresh and having fun. Life is too serious make it fun for both of you.

Tara Richter
Tara Richter is an Internet Dating Coach in Tampa Bay. She is the author of “The Dating Jungle Series” and an Internet TV Show Host.