When two strong personalities come together it can either be blissful or a disaster. The key to a fruitful liaison is a delicate dance of power. It’s a rubber band effect of give and take. One partner will be more dominate in certain times allowing the other to relax. But that person then needs to be able to release control and let it flow to their mate when the time calls for it. If the two alpha lovers can master this, true harmony will result.
On the other hand, if one alpha has issues letting go of their dominant role and never allows the other alpha partner to enjoy control, epic catastrophe can erupt. The lesser alpha will grow restless and either give up hope by eventually slithering into a submissive role which does not feel natural to them which may also turn into depression. Or they become resentful to their mate for making them be this way and lash out by being verbally or physically abusive. They will struggle, and fight to take domination. If every attempt fails eventually they will grow tired and leave the relationship.