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Before you head out into the dating jungle, first get yourself a life. No one wants to date or hang out with someone who doesn’t have friends, a career, a passion or hobbies. You need something to occupy your time when you’re not dating or working. If you’re just sitting around at home waiting for him/ her to call/ text, go get yourself a life! Do something that makes you happy. Find a new hobby or discover your passion.

After divorce or a break-up, especially if you were with the same person for 20 some years, you may have lost your own identity. You’re used to having someone around all the time and now you’re single. It’s going to take some time to get out of your old grove and into a new groove of a divorced diva.

Happy people attract other happy people. Miserable negative people attract other negative people. Once you start occupying your time with doing things that makes you happy others will notice it. You will improve your self-esteem and self-worth and that’s an attractive trait on anyone.

Tara Richter

Tara Richter is an Internet Dating Coach in Tampa Bay. She is the author of “The Dating Jungle Series” and an Internet TV Show Host.